Enjoy fast, free delivery, exclusive deals, and award-winning movies & TV shows with Prime
Try Prime
and start saving today with fast, free delivery
Amazon Prime includes:
Fast, FREE Delivery is available to Prime members. To join, select "Try Amazon Prime and start saving today with Fast, FREE Delivery" below the Add to Cart button.
Amazon Prime members enjoy:- Cardmembers earn 5% Back at Amazon.com with a Prime Credit Card.
- Unlimited Free Two-Day Delivery
- Streaming of thousands of movies and TV shows with limited ads on Prime Video.
- A Kindle book to borrow for free each month - with no due dates
- Listen to over 2 million songs and hundreds of playlists
- Unlimited photo storage with anywhere access
Important: Your credit card will NOT be charged when you start your free trial or if you cancel during the trial period. If you're happy with Amazon Prime, do nothing. At the end of the free trial, your membership will automatically upgrade to a monthly membership.
-30% $17.57$17.57
Ships from: Amazon Sold by: ROSE BOOK SELLER
$6.77$6.77
Ships from: Amazon Sold by: Chelsea’s Book Nook
Download the free Kindle app and start reading Kindle books instantly on your smartphone, tablet, or computer - no Kindle device required.
Read instantly on your browser with Kindle for Web.
Using your mobile phone camera - scan the code below and download the Kindle app.
OK
Image Unavailable
Color:
-
-
-
- To view this video download Flash Player
- VIDEO
Audible sample Sample
Cat Daddy: What the World's Most Incorrigible Cat Taught Me About Life, Love, and Coming Clean Hardcover – May 10, 2012
Purchase options and add-ons
“Galaxy is not your average animal behaviorist. He speaks Cat. And cats listen. He works miracles in saving death-row cats in shelters by helping them get over their fears and increase their self-esteem, and coaching them to ‘work it’ with potential adopters.”—mousebreath.com
“He’s the kind of magic man who can lull a shelter’s roomful of ferocious felines to sleep.”—Yahoo!
“Each of us sheds light on our subject from our own particular point of view. Fortunately for us all Jackson Galaxy’s light is very bright. His success at resolving behavioral difficulties in cats stems from his ability to slide his mind into the cat’s point of view and proceed from there. His insights into both human and cat behavior are right on.”—Anitra Frazier, author of The Natural Cat
Cat behaviorist and star of Animal Planet’s hit television show My Cat from Hell, Jackson Galaxy, a.k.a. “Cat Daddy,” isn’t what you might expect for a cat expert (as The New York Times noted, with his goatee and tattoos he “looks like a Hells Angel”). Yet Galaxy’s ability to connect with even the most troubled felines—not to mention the stressed-out humans living in their wake—is awe-inspiring. In this book, Galaxy tells the poignant story of his thirteen-year relationship with a petite gray-and-white short-haired cat named Benny, and gives singular advice for living with, caring for, and loving the feline in your home.
When Benny arrived in his life, Galaxy was a down-and-out rock musician with not too much more going on than a part-time job at an animal shelter and a drug problem. Benny’s previous owner brought the cat to the shelter in a cardboard box to give him up. Benny had seen better days—his pelvis had just been shattered by the wheels of a car—and his owner insisted he’d been “unbondable” from day one. Nothing could have been further from the truth.
An inspiring account of two broken beings who fixed each other, Cat Daddy is laced throughout with Galaxy’s amazing “Cat Mojo” advice for understanding what cats need most from us humans in order to live happier, healthier lives.
- Print length304 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherTarcherPerigee
- Publication dateMay 10, 2012
- Dimensions6 x 1.25 x 9.25 inches
- ISBN-101585429376
- ISBN-13978-1585429370
Books with Buzz
Discover the latest buzz-worthy books, from mysteries and romance to humor and nonfiction. Explore more
Frequently bought together
Similar items that may deliver to you quickly
Editorial Reviews
About the Author
Product details
- Publisher : TarcherPerigee; First Edition (May 10, 2012)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 304 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1585429376
- ISBN-13 : 978-1585429370
- Item Weight : 14.4 ounces
- Dimensions : 6 x 1.25 x 9.25 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,339,357 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #1,329 in Cat Care
- #9,133 in Fauna
- #38,567 in Memoirs (Books)
- Customer Reviews:
Videos
Videos for this product
1:26
Click to play video
Watch a trailer
Merchant Video
About the authors
Joel Derfner is or has been an aerobics instructor, knitter, go-go boy, math teacher, cheerleader, and the author of Gay Haiku and Swish: My Quest to Become the Gayest Person Ever and What Happened Instead. Musicals for which he has composed the score have played in London, New York, and several cities in between (going the long route). He is from Charleston, South Carolina, and now lives in New York City with his husband.
Jackson Galaxy is the host and executive producer of Animal Planet's long running hit show "My Cat From Hell." Jackson, an animal advocate and cat behavior and wellness consultant, is also a two-time New York Times best-selling author with more than 25 years of experience working with cats and their guardians.
Long before Jackson was known as the “Cat Daddy,” the working musician found he had a unique ability to connect with cats when he took a job at a local animal shelter. During the decade that followed, he worked with thousands of cats, successfully lowering the euthanasia rate at his shelter. His work at the shelter led to a private practice of working with cat guardians and cats in their homes, which helped keep cats out of the shelter in the first place, and became the premise for Animal Planet’s "My Cat From Hell." An immediate hit, the show has been a broadcast staple for nine seasons and has become a global phenomenon, placing Jackson at the forefront of a worldwide obsession with all things feline.
All along, Jackson has stayed true to his roots as a shelter worker, educator, fervent advocate and in-home cat family therapist. At the root of Jackson’s unique approach is a philosophy known as “Cat Mojo,” which teaches cat guardians the skills to help their feline friends build confidence and thrive within their environment, and to better the human/cat relationship at the same time. Jackson has extensively detailed his work and life in his growing collection of authored books. His first, “Cat Daddy,” is a memoir, telling the story of a life-changing relationship with a cat named Benny during his years as a musician, shelter worker and an addict struggling to find a path towards recovery. His subsequent books, “Catify to Satisfy” and “Catification.” Each landed on the New York Times Best-Sellers List.
Jackson has always been committed to bringing better products to the market that live up to his high standards. Jackson Galaxy Solutions, the only line of flower essence remedies designed by a behavior specialist and a veterinarian, has been helping animals live happier and healthier lives since 1995. More recently, his partnership with Petmate has brought a 20-year vision to fruition, providing innovative toys and products for every stage of a cat’s life.
True to his goal of helping to save all animals, Jackson started the Jackson Galaxy Project in 2015 (www.jacksongalaxyproject.com), which seeks to better the lives of at-risk animals by transforming the places they live and helping the people who care for them. Jackson spends much of his time these days devoted to growing the reach and impact of the life-saving JGP programs and partnerships.
Jackson has been featured on 20/20, The Today Show, The Ellen DeGeneres Show, The Late Show with Steven Colbert, The Tonight Show, EXTRA, The New York Times, USA Today, The Washington Post and more
*** The world of Cat Mojo is hitting new heights in 2017. His new Animal Planet series, Cat Vs Dog premiered on November 11th at 10PM ET/PT, and his new book “Total Cat Mojo: The Ultimate Guide to Life with Your Cat” hit shelves on October 31st. For more information please visit www.jacksongalaxy.com, and, like millions of others, stay up-to-date with Jackson on YouTube.com/jacksongalaxy, Facebook.com/jacksongalaxy, Twitter.com/jacksongalacy and Instagram.com/thecatdaddy.***
Customer reviews
Customer Reviews, including Product Star Ratings help customers to learn more about the product and decide whether it is the right product for them.
To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. Instead, our system considers things like how recent a review is and if the reviewer bought the item on Amazon. It also analyzed reviews to verify trustworthiness.
Learn more how customers reviews work on Amazon-
Top reviews
Top reviews from the United States
There was a problem filtering reviews right now. Please try again later.
While I haven't read this book just yet, I bought it as a Mother's Day gift (2014) for my mom. We get together once a week and marathon a few episodes of My Cat From Hell, and then catch up on the kitteh's on the web series of My Cat from Hell, How Do You Like Meow. What's amazing is how well that show captures the humanity in a lot of the owners, and in 90% of the episodes you're left teary eyed if not crying at how happy the stories make you.
Being a cat owner myself and sharing a similar story to Jackson's I can relate.
For me in 2010, I was let go from a job I had worked so hard to obtain. Great pay, good people and in the field I absolutely love. After a fellow employee decided that they just didn't like that my position allowed to dictate rules and changes that they weren't used to they, through a series of unconnected events, were able to get their wish and have me terminated for a grey area in our recently changed handbook a few days earlier. I had just moved into a bigger place and out of my parents at the time, the prior year I had a huge surgery and since a doctor had marked my condition as "pre-existing" insurance didn't cover a dime. After I was terminated I looked up and down for a job in the market I'm in, which lead to a lot of stress. I ended up having hypertension as the hospital called it, which lead to severe panic or anxiety attacks. It got so bad, and lasted so long I lost so many friends and relationships because nobody actually knew what it was like. You often get replies from people like "oh I have a panic attack and I just think it away and im fine" to which I used to reply, that's NOT what I'm experiencing. It's as if you're stuck in some malfunctioning body and your brain is telling you everything is fine, but your body just won't move.
I was terminated two days after Christmas, and 3 days after being terminated a cat that I had had since Childhood had passed away. He was 18 and we loved him more than anything. A woman I worked with happened to have an almost identical in looks and personality cat. While my other one was alive we would often send video/pictures of both our cats doing similar things and comparing about how much we loved them. I get a call one day while I'm frantically trying to manage anxiety and filling out tons of resumes online asking if I could take this cat in since it was decided she had way to many cats/animals at their place. I stated that I had absolutely no money to pay a pet deposit at my place and she agreed to cover that and the first few months food bills. It wasn't long after she dropped him off that me and the cat hit it off. He sat on the edge of the bath tub as I sit trying to relax my body in a hot epsomsalt bath, he'd follow me around my place and sit with me wherever I was, always meowing at me to make sure I was okay. He even went out and would bring animals he caught in through the window I would leave open in the bathroom so he could go in and out when I was home.
I would go on to have a few interviews and panic attacks in the middle of them, some I had to call on a friend or family member to drive me home, and once I got there he was waiting for me. I'd lay down on the bed or couch and he would just come lay on my chest and purr until I fell asleep or I wasn't feeling so tense.
When we were hit by the EF-5 Tornado of 2013 and me and my family stepped outside to see our entire neighborhood destroyed, houses, vehicles and the local elementary school where my niblings went and I eventually drove to to help pull kids from the rubble, I would return to find that he was missing. My heart began pouring out for him, I broke down in the middle of our street with debris all around, sobbing like a young child that had lost his mother. My neighbor and father had believed it was from the trauma of seeing the things with the children and perhaps it was, but in the end it was the thought that I lost my best friend.
In almost an instant of clarity, my neighbor said "is that your cat right there?", I looked down the street and saw a white plastic bag flying across the street, I explained "that's not a cat, it's a plastic bag". "not that" he replied, "Right there", I looked down once again and saw my buddy running low to the ground and scared. I yelled for him and he came running to me, I held him, and dried him off, felt him shivering. So glad he survived.
3 years have gone by and my anxiety is pretty much a thing of the past and I'm almost 100% back to the person I was before. I don't know how I could have done it without him and I can't think of any other cat I'd rather have. It's so hard to walk into the pet stores and see cats up for adoption that are 2-8 years old. I almost cry just walking by thinking how somebody took them to the shelter after loving them for years, only to abandon them. I want to love each and every one, although I know I cant. I hope each and every day they get a good home where they too can be loved as much as I love my cat.
With Jackson Galaxy's help, I've been able to play with and connect with my cat even more with his advice and techniques.
Thank you so much Jackson.
Most of the book is the autobiographical account of Galaxy's ascent out of the hell we know of as addiction. Galaxy was addicted to everything pretty much: pills, booze, pot, prescription drugs, and food, which were really only symptoms of a greater addiction: Galaxy's neurotic fear of being a fraud and a failure -- a fear most of us have had at some point in our lives, more so painfully felt if you are a creative type -- but Galaxy was at least self-aware enough to understand that fixating on himself wasn't going to improve his situation. People always like to tell addicts to "get over themselves," and in reality, that is wise advice when put in the proper context.
Galaxy did attempt to get over himself, hoping that if he focused his energy on helping shelter animals that somehow he would be able to manage his own demons and get himself some direction in life. He was right, but he didn't go in clean, so the physical and emotional pressures of working in the shelter system simply made things worse. Galaxy did find his calling as a cat behaviorist, but not without tripping, stumbling, and falling on his face along the way. Galaxy's life was a train wreck waiting to happen, and the carnage he left in his wake affected everything and everyone around him, including his cats. You can't have a good relationship with an addict. It's just not possible, and that is the truth of the story. How could Galaxy possibly have a healthy relationship with these troubled animals if he couldn't even have one with himself?
Benny the cat's story is also sad but not uncommon. In our throw away society, animals are nothing more than a commodity: something to own like a designer handbag. Most people, including Galaxy at that time, are woefully ill equipped for animal guardianship, and sad to say, most people are way too self-centered to give what takes when it comes to loving and caring for an animal properly. Most people buy and/or adopt an animal because "they the human" need something. They put their human need first. Who the animal is and what the animal needs are often marginalized if not downright ignored. Animal guardianship is a commitment. It's work, and it's for life.
Now I don't want to spoil the book, it's such a wonderful and inspiring read. It's about hope, and faith, and the struggle to find it and keep it - with a few helpful cat care tips mixed in a long the way -- so I'll just say: if you've worked in the shelter system, you'll get it. If you've screamed, cried, and felt hopelessly impotent while caring for a disabled and/or sick animal, you'll get it. If you've ever struggled with addiction of any kind, you'll get it. If you understand that "you" directly affect how your animal companion understands and behaves in its/your world, then you'll get it, and, lastly, if you are the sort of person who understands that people don't own animals, that they share their lives with us, and that they are unique sentient beings who deserve our respect and understanding, so much so that you are the sort of person who is willing to spend endless hours educating yourself so that you can provide the most enriching and healthy quality of life possible for your animal companion, then you will totally get it. I could rant here about the pet industry, but I won't. Jackson Galaxy does plenty of ranting in the book. We just need to support the cause.
I've gone from ferret person to cat person in a very short span of time. When my last ferret passed away of old age, I could have wallowed in it, but I had a cat to care for. A cat who had had a hard life on the street; a cat who needed reassurance and comfort during the difficult transition it had decided to make. It decided to put its life in my hands the day it walked into the house on its own for the first time, and I could not have succeeded in rehabilitating my Moon kitteh without the helpful advice of people like Jackson Galaxy. If you are looking for a "How-to" manual for cats, this isn't the book. I would think of it as a "How I made myself a better person and a better guardian" sort of book. If that's your cuppa tea, then you'll get it.
Top reviews from other countries
O livro é mais sobre o comportamento dele do que o dos gatos.
It was a bare-knuckle ride from a reader's point of view and an insightful fraught journey was had by all, including me. I felt I didn't really breathe properly until I'd read the last word of the Afterword at the end of the journey Jackson took me on with his direct truth and raw realisms of his own fractured life experience, so deeply was I moved by the story of Jackson Galaxy's battles with his demons, and that exhale at the end was a sigh of relief because, here's the spoiler - it all comes good in the end.
And it's not a spoiler per se because anyone who watches My Cat From Hell knows that Jackson Galaxy is alive and well and hosting a fantastic show about cats, and unless you read his compelling life story you wouldn't know how he came to be where's he's at today.
I like that on the front cover of Cat Daddy it states "...includes tips for raising happy, healthy cats" when I in fact thought that was all the book would be about. It was so very much more, and I'm pleased to give it a five-star ratings. It's one of the best non-fiction books I've read in ages. Oh and there are of course many useful tips on being a successful cat guardian woven into the mix.